Lucie Blush on Sex, Patriarchy, and Porn

Don’t get me wrong, I love to take it rough. I’m always up for getting fucked by two guys and I also enjoy being submissive very much. But, we can’t deny there is something wrong in that scene. Something that leaves a bad taste in my mouth. What is it? I think it’s the fact that she has no power. She has no point of view, no presence. The film is shot only with angles that would appeal to the male perspective. Being objectified is not the same thing as being submissive. When you’re submissive, you still have power, because you give your partner the green light to dominate you for your pleasure, not to take whatever body part they want from you and then call you a whore for it. When I see a woman choking on a big dick, her mascara is running down her cheeks and two other guys are fighting over who gets to fuck her in the ass, it makes me feel less human. It’s not that women don’t like sex, it’s that the way it’s been done so far only pushes us to ignore our own desires even more. But I guess it’s hard to understand for people who have never been FUCKED.

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